I want someone who likes some of the obscure music that I like….like Tiger Lou.
You could ask why I would refer to them as “obscure” , well their music has this beat that or rather that one song “the loyal”, point being— it has this easy beat, calming.
We just saw Howl’s Moving Castle, and we’re finishing Whisper of the Heart.
Makes me want to fall madly in love
We live in a society that’s sexist in ways it doesn’t understand. One of the consequences is that men are extremely sensitive to being criticized by women. I think it threatens them in a very primal way, and male privilege makes them feel free to lash out.
This is why women are socialized to carefully dance around these issues, disagreeing with men in an extremely gentle manner. Not because women are nicer creatures than men. But because our very survival can depend on it.
The whole article sadly hits very close to home.(via rosalarian)